Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend



Posted: Wednesday, December 28, 2005

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Cheating has plagued love lives for generations. Sometimes, one never finds out about an affair a girlfriend has had. However, there are certain signs which might give one a clue as to whether (and exactly to what limit) the girlfriend is cheating.

The first sign of infidelity by a girlfriend in a relationship is her general disinterest in anything that the two enjoyed doing together previously. Sometimes this disinterest is blatant. For example, if a couple watches a movie together, and afterwards she can’t remember anything about the movie, then she might be deeply distracted by something. This disinterest then might graduate into a series of unexplained cancellations of plans.

Another sign of infidelity is an inexplicable display of guilt. One way in which guilt manifests itself is avoidance of the person who the guilty party feels is being hurt by her actions. The cheating girlfriend is therefore prone to generally avoiding the injured party – either by not taking calls or by not meeting for that ride or walk the couple used to like so much. Guilt can also cause pre-existing levels of intimacy to plummet.

Of course, there are countless other signs of a new lover: a sudden increase in her monthly expenses and car mileage; a splurge on cosmetics and clothes; a chronically non-reachable cell phone; an increase in overtime at her job without the accompanying increase in her paycheck, and so on. Also, if you notice a sudden increase in the number of her distant cousins, friends, ex-classmates, college friends, and so on, beware: she might be cheating.

Girlfriends having an affair have to be extremely well organized; their schedules are therefore punctiliously maintained. An affair is just an extension of a girl’s daily life: she has to find time for the accomplice between family, work, social life, and the injured party. Keeping a big secret is a very tiresome job, and only the coolest, most calculating people can actually keep such a secret. If your girlfriend is not very resourceful and she is keeping a secret, she will probably falter somewhere and maybe blurt it out to you herself.

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Top-level comments on this article: (5 total)
» left by Anonymous
 5 years 197 days ago.
very helpful... only 2 months too late.!!. wish ide checked the net for sites like this and others along time ago. very heartbroken here. mr jamie d. ireland.
» left by Anonymous 5 years 187 days ago.
i suspected something was wrong and she has shown some of these signs. when i saw her phone she had this new friend on there under katie. when i rang it was this male. she addmitted she had been texting him only as a friend, but why lie.
» left by Devon Major
from New York, NY 5 years 15 days ago.
every time i ask my girlfriend a question, she hesitate to answer them. is that a sign of cheating?
» left by justin from calgary AB 3 years 289 days ago.
thnx 2 this i offically dont think my girlfriend is cheating on me. thnx for the help!
» left by jacob
from franklin, In 3 years 148 days ago.
me and my girl used to do IT all the time and i keep asking her every time if she will and she says next time but when next time comes the exact same answer i get and i wander if she feels guilty or not, but she just wont tell me anything
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